Q: again from mexico... the problem is that there is really no room for them we only live in a 2 bedroom apartment one room for me and the other room for my mom, and "the other" family just left this is how it was my weirdo uncle/aunt and my 2 lil cousins. I really felt so chlosterfobic and i didn't even want to go home sometimes because they were there. It was like 6 people And so yesturday my mother told me that my great aunt( I think that's what she is from me) is coming with her stepdaughter and grandson (who is my age). So I was like but the other family just left! and I told her I didn't feel comfortable she just said I was mean/insensitive and that they are family and that it is her apartment yadda yadda yadda. I just feel really depressed and on top of that I keep thinking about the lump in my breast and how I have to go and get it checked again and have a doctor feel me up because it could be serious I don't like getting felt up with the breast exam but I have to because they are not sure if I have something serious , and I also think about other things in my life I just feel so stressed sometimes anybody can help me with something? that will make me feel better I really do feel bad just thinking about these things in my life
A: for your family problem i would like to say that its not that bad. i know you want a little privacy but we have to adjust sometime. try to have fun with them even if you dont want to. coz if you try to find happiness with them then it wont be a problem anymore. and for your breast exam if possible try finding a female doctor so its not that difficult. and to other things happening in your life think positive. try doing something different. you know even doing little things differently can change your mind form negativity. like getting up from bed in different side or cooking meal in different stove. things like this. hope this helps