Q: Ive been best friends with this girl for a year. A couple days ago, i ended our friendship through a letter (I can get what i feel out better on paper) I ended it because she has changed SO MUCH. This summer she has made out with 9 guys and 3 guys in one day. She also has done pretty much everything but sex (we are 15) She has become extremely cocky and always rubbed it in my face. She now hangs out with a girl we used to be best friends with.. she promised she would never replace me..but she started to and said she wasnt. she was ditching me and mass more stuff just happened where she was horrible to me and now she is best friends with this girl..a day after. she is also about to date a guy who has sex all the time I feel kinda sad now..Im trying to remember the bad things to make me not sad. I hate her now, she has said things to me that cant be taken back. What do i do? Cry, and let it all out? or just remember the bad stuff? I AM NOT BECOMING FRIENDS WITH HER AGAIN..everyone has even advised me to not
A: It sounds like you did the right thing ending things with her. Sometimes just being friends with someone who's morals are lacking can really bring you down in other peoples eyes. It's alright for you to feel sad, the ending of a friendship is always sad. My bestfriend through elementary school & jr high & high school. Started saying terrible things to me when we were about 20 years old. I had to end things, I cried and cried. I though about apologizing. Sometimes these things shouldn't be undone. I think you are wise beyond your years for being able to forsee the future. Congrats. Cry... it's okay to grieve the death of a friendship. But then pick yourself up and meet people who you have more in common with. You'll be better off without her. Good luck! Hope everything goes well for you. Remember to keep your chin up and just be yourself.