Q: About 2 and a half weeks ago, I went out and got very, very drunk. While I was in this state, I gave my phone number to a 44-year-old lady (I'm 25) because when you're drunk, it just seems like the thing to do. She's a lesbian, I'm not. I'm in a very conservative town, and I know I'm one of few people who don't judge her for this, but I'm not the kind of person who needs a best friend around all the time. I prefer to be alone a lot. Well, she calls every day now and always wants to hang out, etc. I dont' think we have much in common, and also the age difference is a little inappropriate to be drinking buddies. I haven't answered my phone for 2 weeks, but she's still calling and leaving messages. Should I continue to ignore the calls forever? I'm wondering why she's not getting the hint. I have to admit that if this was an old guy calling, I would be seriously creeped out. What do you think?
A: Ignore the calls forever. If you answer even once, she knows that persistent calling will succeed. If you can block her from calling, do it. Being a lesbian doesn't exclude her from the creepy and clingy category. You need to stay far, far away from her. And try not to do dumb things even when intoxicated, as there is a price to pay.