Q: ok so here i go.. Umm, okay. I'm going back to umm, january of 2008. I was starting to hate my bestfriend, we'll call her bff # 1. ok, i was starting to hate her.. well because she was really kind of copying me.. like she was WRITING like me.. TALKING like me.. and DRESSING like me.. i really found it VERY annoying. soo yeah, and then we found out there was a new kid right.. so yeah i had SOO MUCH in common with her and like.. we were kinda close but i didnt hang out with her since my bff # 1.. doesnnt like her and she keeps talkinng sh*t about her. and i got really annoyed.. but the new kid doesnt know that my bff#1 was talking sh*t about her k? so then i had to be away.. for like 3 weeks.. and the new kid (my kinda-close friend i know it doesnt make much sense but please try to understand) overheard that BFF#1 was talking YOU KNOW WHAT.. about mee... and she also overheard that my bff#2 was saying "i dont really like (my name)." and also i found out that my CRUSH never really liked me... i was CRUSHED.. my bff's AND my crush. (i know for a fact that the new kid/close friend wouldnt lie.. so please dont say that she lied.. because i really know she didnt=) . thanks) and btw i later found out that my bff#1 liked my crush.. and she was keeping it from me. soo.. then i started to hang out with the new kid.. well she wasnt really new now. cause its been almost a month but yeah. and theres 2 new kids btw. but the other one isnt in my class .. so anyways.. yeah. and then they started to wonder why i wasnt hanging out with them. i really didnt want to say what the new kid told me. because i didnt want to start a fight. and i know that they would deny it.. soo i started to drift away from them.. and yeha.. and theyve been talking ALOT of sh*t about me.. and suddenly everyones turning away from me. because apparently my so called "bff" had spread a rumour that I DITCHED HER.. i know it was bad for me NOT to tell.. but.. i know she would deny it. it is now september of 2008. and ive grown very close to my new friends :) theres 2 of them.. and 1 new kid.. and we're very very close.. but i tried making things better with me and my bff # 1.. and she acts all popular... and i sense that she doesnt want to talk to me. but she lies and says " i miss you too.. and blah" so what im gonna ask is.. Was it wrong for me to do that? Should I tell her what I heard her say? Is it too late? What SHOULD I DO? Thanks in advance. - anonymous. And my Bff#1, has a new bestfriend now. and her new friend was my friend anymore.. and ever since they became bestfriends. she doesnttalk to me anymore. Sorry for the way I typed. I was just feeling kinda mad as I typed my story. So, anyway I apologize if my typing confused you. & THANKS SO MUCH... for your answers. I REALLY REALLY do appreciate them. I'm so sorry for adding SO MUCH details... but what can i say to other people when they ask me... Why did you ditch her? and some of my old friends that I used to hand out with are like.. hang out with her again. and blah.
A: I don't know why you would even bother. Your new friends are cool. Move on.