Q: How do I stay on the level with this girl? I really like her, but she's goody goody and not exactly the same lol. I definitely drink and go to parties and stuff, which i don't think that she would like. I've gone on a few dates with her, and yeah I've definitely not entirely been myself. I watch my language around her, I don't smoke around her (btw i only smoke cigarettes, no weed. cant stand it.) In fact, i'm not entirely sure that she knows I smoke at all. But we have the same humor, we talk the same way, and she's generally just like me, with the exception of partying and stuff. Ive hinted at being a "bad boy," but i dont know how she feels about that sort of stuff. I definitely like her, so is there any way that i can keep her in my life?
A: JUST BE YOURSELF! sooner or later she will find out that you do those things, and will more likely be upset that you hid it from her rather than if you just came clean. honestly, most girls, even 'goody goody' ones, like bad boys. so you don't really have anything to worry about! just think about this: do you like her enough to stop drinking/smoking if she doesn't approve?