Q: she also had sex with her sisters hubby this all came out at her sisters house.what hurt me the most is even the children knew.i love her but the trust has gone. does any one think that she can be trusted?she has lied and lied to me,what do you think i should do?
A: Everyone has a past, did she lie bluntly about it or did she just not tell you what happened. There is a difference kind of. you have to sit down with her and ask her why she never told you. It could be she was embarrassed. If you love her give her a chance to explain and if she loves you she will explain everything. It was unfair of her to put you in the situation at her sisters house with you not knowing anything but talk to her. Good luck