Q: On occasions I mess up,not infidelity, and my partner (not married but live together) then deals out the punishment , first week no talks and no sex, second week talks but no sex etc. Awhile back I moved into the spare room and strangely enough I feel quite happy there and our relationship(excluding sex) is still good and of course my right hand seems to be getting more exercise than my left but that's ok. Why should a woman control a man in this way?
A: Aw, honey, this trick is as old as humanity itself. This is precisely how human sexuality works. It's a trade-off. She is training you, dear one!